If you’ve ever worried about looking stiff, awkward, or like you’re in a 2007 prom photo while taking wedding pics—breathe. You’re not alone, and we got you.
At Hey Love Studios, we hear this question all the time:
“How do we pose naturally in our wedding photos without looking super posed?”
The truth? You don’t need to be a model. You just need a photographer who knows how to guide you gently, help you feel comfortable, and capture the real you—not the “Pinterest version” of you.
Let’s pull back the curtain and show you how we make posing feel easy, joyful, and actually kind of… fun?
1. First of All—You’re Not “Bad at Posing”
Say it with us: “I’m not bad at photos. I just haven’t had the right experience yet.”
If you’ve ever looked at photos of yourself and cringed, it probably had less to do with you and more to do with how you were photographed.
We don’t believe in forcing anyone into poses that feel unnatural. Instead, we create a space where your chemistry, connection, and comfort come first—and the photos follow.
2. We Use Prompts, Not Poses
What makes something look natural is that it feels natural.
Instead of saying “put your hand exactly here and tilt your head 17 degrees to the left,” we guide you with movement-based prompts like:
- “Whisper your favorite breakfast food like it’s a sexy secret.”
- “Walk toward me like you’re leaving your wedding and just realized you forgot your cat.”
- “Snuggle in like you’re watching your favorite show on the couch.”
Silly? Sometimes. Effective? Always. These get you laughing, connecting, and forgetting the camera is even there.
3. We Pay Attention to Your Energy
Some couples are goofy. Some are soft and snuggly. Some are nervous but open. Some are tender and serious.
We’ll never force you into something that doesn’t feel like you. Instead, we read the room (and your vibe), and adjust the way we prompt and guide you.
Whether you’re giving us soft glances or chaotic energy—we meet you where you are.
4. We Hype You Up and Give Gentle Direction
Think of us as your built-in confidence crew. We’re not going to bark orders at you, but we’re also not going to leave you hanging.
You’ll get a blend of:
- Gentle direction for flattering angles
- Hype-y affirmations when you’re killing it
- Natural pauses so you don’t feel rushed
- Space to just be in the moment with your partner
You’ll never have to wonder, “What do I do with my hands?” again. We’re already one step ahead of you.
5. We Celebrate Who You Are, Not Just What You Look Like
Wedding photos shouldn’t feel like a performance. They should feel like a celebration.
That means:
- All body types are celebrated—no weird editing, no hiding
- All identities and expressions are welcome
- We give you space to be yourself, not someone else’s idea of a “perfect couple”
Our goal isn’t just to make you look good. It’s to make you feel seen.
Final Thoughts: You’re Not Too Awkward—You’re Just Not a Model (and You Don’t Need to Be)
Real talk? Most people feel awkward in front of the camera at first. But with the right guidance, it fades fast. You start to settle in. You laugh. You connect. And suddenly, you forget you were even nervous.
Our job is to get you there.
If you’re looking for a wedding photographer who makes photos feel like a hangout, not a photo shoot—we got you.
