In this episode, we’re breaking down why more couples are choosing micro weddings and elopements and why this shift isn’t just about money or trends. From intimacy and safety to flexibility, intention, and emotional freedom, we explore what actually changes when you scale a wedding down and design it around what matters most to you.
Drawing from years of experience photographing queer weddings, courthouse ceremonies, backyard celebrations, and destination elopements, we talk through real examples of couples who chose small—and never looked back. We unpack the difference between micro weddings and elopements, how COVID accelerated this shift, and why queer couples in particular often thrive in more intimate, affirming settings.
We also get practical: locations you may not have considered, creative ways to include loved ones who can’t attend, how to think about vendors, permits, marriage licenses, and why your visual storytelling deserves time even if your ceremony is short. Most importantly, we remind you that there is no “right” way to get married. You don’t need permission to celebrate your love in a way that feels safe, joyful, and true to who you are.
This Episode Is For You If…
- You’re considering a smaller, more intimate celebration but aren’t sure where to start
- You want to understand the difference between a micro wedding and an elopement
- You’re a queer couple looking for a celebration that feels safe and fully affirming
- You want to know your options for unique venues and meaningful locations
- You need creative ways to include family and friends who can’t attend in person
- You want to give yourself permission to design a wedding that actually feels good
What You’ll Learn
- The key differences between micro weddings and elopements—and why the definitions can vary
- Why many couples feel calmer, more present, and more connected with smaller weddings
- How intimate celebrations can increase safety and emotional ease for queer couples
- What actually changes when you reduce your guest list (logistics, energy, and priorities)
- How smaller weddings open the door to unique, meaningful locations
- What to know about permits, public spaces, and getting married outside traditional venues
- Creative ways to include loved ones who can’t attend in person
- How to choose vendors who truly support and celebrate your relationship
- Why photography and videography still matter—even for short ceremonies
- How slowing down your wedding day can create deeper memories and storytelling
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